Warning: Strong Language The bestselling author of The Life-Changing Magic of Not Giving a F*ck and Get Your Sh*t Together, Sarah Knight, outlines her …
I’m all for not giving a f**. But when it comes to friends and family, don’t you worry that they’ll turn it around and stop giving their f***s to you when you need love & support? Or stop inviting you to things that you might like to go to? I just think to totally not give a f** about so much can leave a person to feel isolated and alone. We make an effort not only because we feel obligated and guilty, but because we care about the people we love and will do most things to make them happy even at our own expense. For example, my friend is decorating his home and needs help with painting the rooms. I really don’t want to do this but I can see that helping him would mean a lot to him and I know he’d do the same for me. I get that politely declining to partake in things shouldn’t turn you into an a**hole. But try explaining that to those you let down won’t always see it that way. And yea, sure. Get rid of those people if they’re like that. But that’s what I mean about isolation . Do you keep getting rid of people in your life because they don’t understand you or make an effort because you care about them and you want them in them in your life, but don’t support some or even most of the things they‘re into.
I hope ur method dont get me slapped but i need time for me and my life and the things that are important to me. Which people seem to not care about long as u do for them.
I've been not giving a "F" for a while, and ppl just call me a selfish a$$h0le, and I rarely get invited anywhere. There is more of an art to this if you still want to be likeable. ..Plus, I think the majority of us want to quit our 9 to 5 and live on an island, but, c'mon, how??? I'd like a Ted Talk on how to realistically do that.
This is great, but unfortunately I live in a culture where it's not possible to give a straight, 'no' and escape easily. Co-workers would constantly bother you and keep pressuring you to change your mind, etc. Therefore, in my country most people give false excuses instead of an honest 'no I'm sorry'.
No one laughed at her f-bombs until she said she had been an editor at a publishing house. People are sheep. Obviously, this woman was tired of editing other people's books and wanted to publish her own. I don't need any of her advice because I was never a brainwashed automaton.
I loved your book Sarah , OMG I read it 3 times , mind blowing, I stopped giving a f*** for so many things , whilst being an a** whole. Love your voice ❤️
Okay so how do you politely tell someone you don't give a f*ck about him? When they want to meet and text you all the time? And especially when they think you're soulmates but you were annoyed since day one? Asking for a friend lol
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I have been married to my husband for two years with no idea he was cheating. Suddenly i started noticing changes in his behavior, It seemed as though my life was spinning out of control getting to find out he has someone else. I confided in a friend who convinced and introduce me to a hacker @redhackpro on instagram he was able to hack into my husband mobile phone, hacked into his credit card and account. You can also send him a whatsapp messages +1 937-815-1491.
I live my entire life with this "Give no F's energy " I have mastered it and I enjoy living in it. Focus your energy only on what you want to expand. I have a video on my channel where I explained how to get this energy in great detail! Check it out if you want to free yourself.
Lmao, I Love it!!! Best TEDtalk ever!!! Hilarious yes, but gets the point across so freaking well…we all would be better off following her advice…less stress, more joy! ???
Spoken like a true narcissistic psychopath
Awesome!
Eu acho que ja faço isso. Só preciso aprimorar…rs
She's wonderful
wait I want this to be longer !!
this woman is a fucken genius
Ready to start NOW!!!! Longtime overdue!!!
What the…….
Seems simply.
What is the rationale for using all the swear words. Your whole presentation loses
THIS IS ALSO A LESSON ON HOW TO NOT BE FAKE
S o did YOU or Marc Manson really get this all going
I need to word my opinion on this topic carefully. Perhaps I read his best seller and missed the point,
too many f-bombs, not an intellectual ted talk
Everything in two words "One Life".
I’m all for not giving a f**. But when it comes to friends and family, don’t you worry that they’ll turn it around and stop giving their f***s to you when you need love & support? Or stop inviting you to things that you might like to go to? I just think to totally not give a f** about so much can leave a person to feel isolated and alone. We make an effort not only because we feel obligated and guilty, but because we care about the people we love and will do most things to make them happy even at our own expense. For example, my friend is decorating his home and needs help with painting the rooms. I really don’t want to do this but I can see that helping him would mean a lot to him and I know he’d do the same for me. I get that politely declining to partake in things shouldn’t turn you into an a**hole. But try explaining that to those you let down won’t always see it that way. And yea, sure. Get rid of those people if they’re like that. But that’s what I mean about isolation . Do you keep getting rid of people in your life because they don’t understand you or make an effort because you care about them and you want them in them in your life, but don’t support some or even most of the things they‘re into.
I hope ur method dont get me slapped but i need time for me and my life and the things that are important to me. Which people seem to not care about long as u do for them.
I've been not giving a "F" for a while, and ppl just call me a selfish a$$h0le, and I rarely get invited anywhere. There is more of an art to this if you still want to be likeable. ..Plus, I think the majority of us want to quit our 9 to 5 and live on an island, but, c'mon, how??? I'd like a Ted Talk on how to realistically do that.
I don't want to go to college. I wanna pursue my dream, but I have very strict Asian parents. I wanna tell them but I am afraid .-.
I find this out for myself. I care about everything I choose to mind.
This is great, but unfortunately I live in a culture where it's not possible to give a straight, 'no' and escape easily. Co-workers would constantly bother you and keep pressuring you to change your mind, etc. Therefore, in my country most people give false excuses instead of an honest 'no I'm sorry'.
Idgaf.
Insta bhavin754
No one laughed at her f-bombs until she said she had been an editor at a publishing house. People are sheep. Obviously, this woman was tired of editing other people's books and wanted to publish her own. I don't need any of her advice because I was never a brainwashed automaton.
The most inspiring 12 minute speech I have ever heard!
I call it mindfulness ?
I wanted to thank a special someone who has been investing their f*€k bucks into our new beginning. It hasn’t gone unnoticed! ??⭐️?
This video was life-changing to me. I still come back to rewatch it to remind myself when i feel lost again.
I loved your book Sarah , OMG I read it 3 times , mind blowing, I stopped giving a f*** for so many things , whilst being an a** whole. Love your voice ❤️
Okay so how do you politely tell someone you don't give a f*ck about him? When they want to meet and text you all the time? And especially when they think you're soulmates but you were annoyed since day one? Asking for a friend lol
I would recommend that you only contact @redhackpro on Instagram. he is an expert in accounts and website hacking, he helped me hack my cheating partner's device, it seemed that my life was spinning out of control to discover that my partner had someone else. and I could read all the text. You can also send him a message on WhatsApp +1(937)815-1491
I think this was bloody brilliant – I've shared to loads!
I have been married to my husband for two years with no idea he was cheating. Suddenly i started noticing changes in his behavior, It seemed as though my life was spinning out of control getting to find out he has someone else. I confided in a friend who convinced and introduce me to a hacker @redhackpro on instagram he was able to hack into my husband mobile phone, hacked into his credit card and account. You can also send him a whatsapp messages +1 937-815-1491.
Short and beautiful
Caveat – being married aka inviting the legal system into your love life. Prevention better than cure. Young people watch the f out.
Im just watching this after saying yes to a date with a guy i dont even like….
So loud and clear!
I live my entire life with this "Give no F's energy "
I have mastered it and I enjoy living in it.
Focus your energy only on what you want to expand.
I have a video on my channel where I explained how to get this energy in great detail! Check it out if you want to free yourself.
Lmao, I Love it!!! Best TEDtalk ever!!! Hilarious yes, but gets the point across so freaking well…we all would be better off following her advice…less stress, more joy! ???
I watched this at the best time ?? great video ?
She just wanted to flip marie Kondo off with this one lol
Clear it the Annoy to make room for the Joy!! BRILLIANT
I’m here because of “Calm the F*** Down”
Freedom is not caring what other people think.
tysm , loved it
Just think of it like this. Your going to stop lying to people.
My son has always had the best response. "No thank you". How could you be mad when it's said so nicely.
It's you whoms matter most
All she talking is respect your boundaries respect what you value
Ted talks always have a cult-ish feel to them.
Wow this woman is a mental patient. I’ve never given fucks my entire life sounds like she’s been living like a fake person most of hers